Question: I live in Oklahoma, we have our cactus on the outside deck, receiveing only filtered sun. One has fallen over, the soil is neither too wet or dry. We water once a month.
Answer: Based on your description I am not certain what has happened to your cactus. However, some types of cactus are not able to survive in cold weather, so perhaps it has been too cold for it outdoors.
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