I apologize for this delayed reply to your gardening question and hope it is still helpful to you. That's a pretty broad couple of questions and the answer usually comes down to what you find aesthetically and practically most useful. Let me refer you to the following two web sites for a wealth of great ideas for choosing such plants for your Florida landscape:
Thanks for the question. Best wishes for a wonderful gardening season. Please stop in again soon!
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