I apologize for this delayed reply to your gardening question. The spring rush has brought a deluge of questions and we are working hard to catch up!
Your question is really many questions in one. For a great resource to help you with locally pertinent gardening advice, plant lists, and free educational materials like me referred you to your County Extension Office. The following website provides a link to your local office:
This next website is a great resource for gardening information your area:
Thanks for the question. Best wishes for a wonderful gardening season. Please stop in again soon!
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