Very strange. If you can eliminate all those possibilities I am at a loss for what else might be going on with those plants. I know of no insect that goes around eating flowers of such diverse species. The only thing that comes to mind to try is to plant more flowers (or set some out in pots) and then set up a video camera to see if you can catch the culprit in the act!
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