I have been fighting that stuff now for at least five years.
I put some STRONG weed killer on a big patch, that was not near any thing else, it died and then came back late fall.
I do use pre-emergent but mostly use dedicated killer now.
Some areas it just does not go away, it dies and and then comes back.
It is mostly in my garden area but I have a second variety in my one part of lawn that is just as hard to get rid of.
High grass does nothing to get rid of eiher variety once it is established. Where it is growing on the edge of the thickest grass lawn, it gets fertilizer run-off from the garden , you think it is gone then one day while mowing , there it is, again.
There are spots under my Bridal Veil that I spray, and spray, and spray , and spray with killer.
As I said it dies, and then come back.
I have dug, not pulled , dug it out of a few areas and that does seem to work but in the lawn only works if you dig outside the area , down four to five inches , put new dirt in and reseed.
In the long run , it is far, far, far more miserable to deal with than Crab grass or even Canadian Thistle.