Thanks for tagging me Scarlet! Lot of great advice and I'll just add my two cents.
It's been a tough year for a lot of people when it comes to dahlias.
I think everyone has their opinion on when watering is best. I've always watered in the evening, reasoning that it doesn't dry up right away and it's good for the plants while they're resting and thinking about growing overnight. Also pretty crappy at deep watering so I make sure to water them each night unless it rains. There's a lot of blah blah blah about what they like...they are thirsty plants though. Maybe I'm a weirdo but I personally would like lots of small drinks vs one giant one, lol.
Always have rough Summers here (weather it's temp/storms or both) so I like to think that they limp along with my help until September. Some blooms may be wonky, but weather can really do a number on brightly colored flowers. Don't beat yourself up and the best may be on the way.
It's a little late for fertilizing, but that could definitely help. I use agrothrive/fish and kelp fertilizer along with compost tea every couple of weeks until mid August. When something looks super stressed or on the verge of failing, I bring out some epsom salt and water it in. It supposedly works to allow the plant to take up any available nutrients.
Just my two cents!