Sometimes avocadoes shed old leaves this way, especially when in containers. Our Summer season has kicked in and I cannot water enough to keep my plants happy, do you feed it with any fertilizers? The top growth looks good, sorry the baby avocadoes were lost. Does it sit in sunlight? These trees need full sun even when their roots are in small pots ( 20 gallons, I know, but it wants to be a tree) I cannot help you with trimming the roots on it, not my experience, but it sometimes must be done for the health of the plant. I suppose it may be too hot now to do the root trim and soil refresh, but definitely feed it and water a bit more often.