Hi Deb,
I am no expert, but my understanding is that this does happen. I have a stand Hakonechloa macra aureola that is doing this too. I just keep digging out the reverted grass & planting it elsewhere. I think solid green plants are hardier that the variegated ones. Maybe a little bit of evolution happening here?
Here is a shot of my Hakone grass some years back when the reversion was just beginning:
Can you see the small bunch of grass to the right that is totally green? I have moved it and it is now becoming a big stand of solid green hakone grass, clearly hardier that its parent.
Deb, you have made me curious about Astrantia major 'Sunningdale Variegata'. I might check it out. I love variegated plants in the garden.