Maybe my plant is the one on the picture from botanical gardens.. maybe mine is a bit chlorotic, and might look different
but it still looks different than the pictures on the internet. maybe it will bloom someday, and it will be easier ti ID.
I wrote that the garden centre has more varieties.. i ment it has more varieties of other plants. Our botanical gardens may look ok on the web, but in reality it is barely worth a visit. It is mostly volounteer work (because it is a part of the university for botanics, and it gets almost no funding), and nobody knows anything, for there are mostly uninterested students working there.. they sell some plants, but with no names on the pots, and if you ask, no one has a clue what grows in it
Thank you all for your help and research
this is a wonderful bunch of plant lovers :D