1. Acquire some seed: either from plants you have grown or seed purchased. If you already have some plants the bees may help you by pollinating some blooms and you might get some "bee pods", actually seed pods that were pollinated by bees. If you want to make sure you get some seed pods you need to determine first if your plants or tetraploids or diploids, they don't normally cross with each other very well. Then you can take pollen from one plant place it on the pistil of the other plant and wait till seed pods form. Let the pods mature then harvest them. That can take several weeks to happen. A lot of your crosses may not take, so don't expect a pod every time you pollinate a flower. Check each plant in the database and see if it is fertile before wasting a lot of time.
2. The survival rate can vary considerably, I have no figures, and it is such a variable it will just depend. Still I would think maybe at least 50 per cent on the low side and much higher on the high end.
3. I was just reading a post and people on this forum have actually gotten bloom in as little as 3 months, but that is not normal at all. In your zone I would think more like two years would be the norm from seed to bloom, others can respond to that better.