I think the odd shape is due to incomplete pollination, nothing related to your jalapenos. As Cole said, they are perfectly fine to use, but you will probably need to use them fairly quickly as the ones with narrow ends seem to start rotting more quickly than the "normal" ones.
If you're so inclined, you can use an artist's paintbrush to transfer pollen from the male flowers to the female flowers (the female flowers are the ones with a tiny cucumber beneath the flower).