That's raw, Gene. What comes around goes around. Karma will settle. I can't afford to send without payment up front, so I don't. Nothing for the sweaty effort of digging & packing, driving to the PO, which is a gift, but not the postage. If I had something I've heard referred to as "disposable income," I would totally enjoy disposing some by sending plants out for free w/o even asking for the postage back.
"Neither a borrower nor a lender be; / For loan oft loses both itself and friend."