Lisa, I am so glad you found your way here. We love people like you to join in the learning experience. Hopefully we keep learning until the day we leave this earth.
On your covered patio, is that shaded during the day? If so that would be a wonderful place for you little furry semp. It won't take long to recuperate once it is happy.
Blooming happens in it's own time. Some times even the young offsets will bloom.
That is not a good thing, because a rosette that blooms will die in the process of maturing the bloom into seeds. But just that rosette dies, not the other in the colony. In my above photo there are three rosettes blooming, but the other small rosettes will fill the vacant spots when the bloom stalk is dead. It is also fun to leave the seed heads in place until completely dry. With luck the seeds will fall to the ground and next year you will find very tiny semps growing.
I use no fertilizer, I like them to stay in a more normal growing state. Better color and hardiness usually is experienced growing them on the lean side.
Have you been through the database here on ATP yet?
There are many great spillers (draping plants) that would be lovely in that fish pot. Let us see what we can come up with.
1. Needs to handle full sun in Houston, TX
2. Drape or spill over the edge.
3. Winter hardy in your zone 8b area. (This can be accomplished by putting it under your patio roof for winter)
Going to see what I can find for a spiller for you.