Okay, here are some more pictures. Maybe this will help?
The leaves seem to have a slight fuzzy feeling and the stems are hairy too.
This is what the lower leaves look like.
Here is a top leaf.
Stem
One more picture. Hubby was out there looking at it yesterday and pinched the top off to take a smell. (sometimes!!
) btw, it doesn't really have a distinct smell.
And Janet, just because I figured you would be looking, I added this BIGGY that was crawling by while I took my pictures!
It's HUGE!