Lol
Daylily math....for either gender.
My good friend Robin Nichols, may she rest in peace, had the best explanation for her hubby. She kept telling him that she had a bunch of good friends (which she did), and that all the boxes that kept showing up with gift plants.....lol.
My dear wife has just given up. Forty four years of marriage will do that to a person...lol. She appreciates that this hobby keeps me home, and that the grandkids benefit, and that the yard looks grand (except for now). She does miss her vegetable garden, though.
James has a much more simple plan. Mention gift boxes to the pups and see if they pick up their ears.
Steve