All kinds of peppers need a lot of strong sunlight to bear fruit, as the other posters are saying. So, even in a south window, in the UK your winter sunlight isn't going to be strong enough or last long enough to make the plants flower.
If you can put a grow light or two over the plants, and add a few hours of light in the morning and evening, that will at least keep the plants from becoming leggy and "reaching" for more light. Could you buy a "grow light" bulb for one of your desk lights? It will help your plants a LOT. Even if they don't flower and fruit this winter, when you put them outside next spring they will be ready and waiting to make chilis for you.
As far as the 'forgetting to water' part, if you do that to the baby plants, they sure will not like it. The little root systems and small container size won't let them survive very long if you let them wilt. Once the plants are big, well established and in nice big pots, you can stress them like that for a few days, but once the leaves wilt you must water them really well again. Plants that bear fruit really work pretty hard, and need their water and nutrients.