Hi Robert, and welcome to ATP.
I've never seen any Tabebuia seedlings but they do grow moderately slowly to be big, widely branched trees here and are not particularly deep-rooted. Known as a bad landscape tree to have near your house as they tend to blow over in high winds. Also they are not evergreen, so don't panic if they lose all their leaves - that will happen a few weeks before they burst into bloom.
It's possible that they aren't getting a long enough term of hot weather and full sun where you are. Are you keeping them pretty warm? Giving them any supplemental light? Down here we do get into the 40's at night occasionally in winter, and rarely even get frost and nights in the 30's. Mostly during the winter the lows are in the 60's and highs mid-70's to 80's. By April it will be warm and humid, so we have probably 8 or 9 months of warm temperatures and intense sun. I think you'll have to try to give it a climate closer to what it has in the places where it thrives outdoors.
I know in Ontario in summer you do get warm and humid. They will appreciate being outdoors in the full sun for as long as the nights are not below about 50. Also here they get a LOT of water in the summer - it rains like crazy almost every day when the weather is hot. Be sure the drainage is good, though. Our soil is sandy, as it also is in most of Cuba, I believe.
Not sure how long you're going to be able to keep these as potted plants, up there in Canada. If you're successful in growing them, they'll be too big to come indoors fairly soon. Anybody got a commercial greenhouse near you where they would "board" them for the winter? They are nice trees with pretty foliage most of the year, spectacular flowers for a few weeks in the spring (they are in bloom now here) and very messy when they drop all those flowers.