I am also trying the milk spray this year. My spring milkweed seedlings began to develop powdery mildew so I went looking for a remedy. Apparently the milk treatment does work according to what I've read. There was a professor at one of the colleges who did a study on using milk to combat powdery mildew.
The dilution I saw recommended was one part milk to two parts water. I use a hand sprayer to apply it to both the top and underside of the leaves. Also read that it didn't seem to matter whether it was whole milk or other.
It is suggested to begin a milk spray treatment for susceptible plants even before the mildew begins and if I'm remembering correctly, to spray once a week for best results.
Myles