@orchidgal I am sorry I did not make myself clear on my post, I have some plants that I did cut back last year that have came back beautifully, and yes I have cuttings I took from those plants as well and some new plants I grew from seed over the winter. Most of them are all in the same area. But they are all having the same symptoms no matter which one they are, ie cuttings, new seeded plants or cut back plants that came back. Being that said, I am now wondering, in this area, if it is the water issue, where the tropical getting too much and swamp not enough, because I do water them more in that area, however being that said trying to trouble shoot this I have some plants of both species in another location no where near those are that barely get any water from me only rain and the leaves are doing the same thing.
I did soil test last night and the soil I have is very acidic and sandy which leads me to believe maybe they are not getting enough nutrients as well, maybe a whole combination of everything. Thank You for bringing up these points as it is making me think all of this thru to troubleshoot. I did buy 3 new milkweeds from Home Depot this week as well. So maybe I will have to start a new batch.
@plantsmyove, that is something I did not think about as I have both planted in the same vicinity, one wanting more water than the other. Maybe I should think about moving the tropical to where they do not get as much water.
Thanks guys for your help