Karen, I don't know if you've already traded or not, but there are a lot of daylily seeds being traded in our seed swap. Feel free to check it out. I'm about to make a 'last-call' post in this forum for anyone who might want to still join, but I saw your thread and thought you might particularly benefit. Here is the seed list for the swap I host:
http://garden.org/apps/swap/sw...
(the daylily seed listings start around page 9 or 10).
Good luck finding your seeds, whether you join or not!