Lilylady,
The host is allowed to use/share pollen freely.
They are just asked not to set pod on it as we want max. fan increase before it is returned to the club for auction.
Many of our club members are not hybridizers. Some will share, others seem to find it a bother since they don't dab.
Adoption plants are done by random draw so you do not get to pick. It seems I always draw a red full form (which I usually do not work with)
Lisa