@Kjnorris918, Question: Can you trade seed or cuttings of the black sapote? Have you ever harvested the fruit? Persimmon grows wild here, if you know what to look for, which I don't. Years ago my husband planted a Japanese persimmon & couldn't wait to try the fruit. I even found a couple recipes to try because I'd never eaten persimmon. He didn't count on the neighbor across the road feeding corn to the deer. The deer would then visit her pond for a drink, & come to his little tree for dessert. Straight line from one to another.
I am interested in any of this from your list - anise hyssop, bee balm, bronze fennel, pink muhly grass, toothache plant, or any milkweed. Your choice of whatever.