Thank you Danita, mom2goldens & kqcrna.
I contacted the seller who agreed to an exchange but I have to ship them back. I'll either do that or secure and dispose of them.
I'm glad I'm not the first person to jump the gun and order something I shouldn't have. I certainly don't want to be known as the cattail killer , with this trail of flowers leading right back to my house lol Such a shame because it's such a gorgeous flower too :(
Thanks for the support
It's a bummer, but less so than introducing a wetland invader and realizing it's my fault I guess
Still think it's a pretty flower