new update.. not so good news. Car's totaled. I'm waiting patiently (NAWT!) for the insurance adjuster to contact me (still, they're almost impossible to get in touch with and they give you hours like "Oh, we'll get to you between 8am and 5pm". WTH???) so we can go over how much the settlement is going to be. DH is 100% physically OK, no problems with him other than extreme depression (the car was almost 100% paid off, almost 2 years early). We've got a new car lined up, but can't take possession until I know how much the payoff is going to be, then I can put a down payment on the new car.
Here's the main shot of the car at the body shop.