What you might try looking at is going into your "Lists Control Panel", then scroll down to where it shows "Manage Categories" in the blue column on the left side and click on that. Click on the "edit" icon (on the right side where it shows the list of your categories) for your daylily category. That should bring up a screen that shows what your privacy setting is for that category. Don't click on the name of the category (that's the mistake I always make), just click on the "edit" icon next to the category in the list.