JRsbugs,
OK, I think that is it. The larger flower size, the taller plant height, and the leaves make this the correct choice in my opinion (which has changed about three times now), so I am calling it solved, it is Viburnum macrocephalum 'sterile'.
Thanks to everyone for all the help in finding the correct names for some of my plants, it is very much appreciated. I know it takes time to look at all the photos.
Dang..I may have jumped the gun on that ID, went over to enter my pictures and saw the bright red looking foliage on Viburnum macrocephalum 'sterile'. I know my observation and memory or pretty poor, but I never recall seeing the leaves change to that color.
