I found this site and now i have something to compare size of sand,grit whatever.
http://repotme.com/garden-cent...
I'm not sure but i know if you get it on-line you pay more but may be worth doing it once just to have a sample of what i need. I am going to try to talk to the business that the hubby gets his pea gravel from. Hoping they will sale it to me maybe by the pound instead of truck load,i believe they do weigh the truck before & after just like the going to the dump (we don't have trash pick-up,we go to the dump) .I live in a little town and it's not always a good thing but a fact of life in small towns mentioning family name,business owners name hubby works for will get you favors.
Why am i having such a problem with this when everyone else simply uses grit,sand etc...