Name: Anne Summerville, SC (Zone 8a) Only dead fish go with the flow!
Most definitely datura. You need to be cutting off the spent blooms or the plant will go down hill quickly. Takes a lot of energy to make seeds .. If you're wanting seeds for next year, let one or two seed pods develop.
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