lovemyhouse, I forgot to mention how great your FMs look! It's supposed to have a knock-your-socks-off scent. Does it?
I also hear they should be staked, but yours doesn't look like you propped them up at all. I have an FM, but it is young still and I expect few or one bloom (depending on which plant it is - which I don't know as I seem to have an extra peony planted that wasn't on my list!)
wildflowers, I'm not good at discerning which pests do what - I have little experience. Will you post the damage, though? I'm curious.
Yay for the spider saving your flower… and *shudder* lol