Cat - Congratulations! I wrote an article for ATP just this year about growing daylilies from seeds. You might get some ideas about sowing your seeds from my article:
http://garden.org/ideas/view/b...
Make sure if you sow them in pots to use a good and sterile soil mix or a soil-less mix. The refrigerating (chilling) time is still debatable. I think it was Michele who said she doesn't chill hers.