I went through the pictures on your "have" list just to see if I could find something to match it, but came up empty. However, I was oooohing and ahhhhing the whole way through
So many beautiful daylilies that I have no room for, but want just the same.
Your daylily reminds me somewhat of Flight of the Raven, but yet not quite. Always Afternoon also kind of looks like it, but does not have the edge like yours. I hope someone can help you find the name.