Awesome suggestions! Thank you so much! I'm wanting varying shades of lavender/mauve/purple, and English Perfume is beautiful! I like the way Rhapsody has the blue wash, reminds me of the old Veilchenblau(sp?), or Blue Rambler, but with the bonus of rebloom. I do like those Agastaches a lot- do they seed themselves like some of the others? I like finding self sown plants
They remind me a bit of Penstemon smallii that I have in that area.