I believe that people should forgive but there are somethings that to me are extremely hard to forgive for, specially without acknowledgement or an apology from the perpetrator. To find out how forgivable the offense is, return the offense to the perpetrator, then find out just how forgivable it was...just saying
I do find it ironic how people want an apology when they feel they are owed one but yet don't apologize when they owe one......when will they learn???
don't expect what you can't .....or won't give
I also believe people do not change, not really, you can but it is something that has to be something they really want and work on, if not the true color will usually seep through.
