Yes i understand your technique and I can see your dilemma. But, I'm wondering if the net pots are needed at all for either Summer or Winter, since you say if they are in 'only' net pots they dry out way too fast. So why not just plant them in a 'normal' pot with a drainage hole and skip the net pots altogether? Once the plants get big it will be hard to remove the net pots from the cache pots when you want to water anyway.. especially in a hanging pot. Hey I'm no expert, just wondering- maybe others have good working techniques with their net pots?
Some prefer clay pots for hoyas so more air can get to the roots without any waterlogging, others prefer plastic pots if their hoyas tend to get too dried out in clay pots.
I imaging net pots are great for orchids, hoyas, nepenthes, and epiphytic plants that stay outside or in a warm greenhouse year round and get watered/misted almost every day with a hose wand, where drips (and winters) don't even matter.

I think of net pots as just that- plastic netting that holds together a bunch of chunks and bark in which the roots can grow, in open air. If that always gets too dry in your situation then maybe think about using a conventional pot instead?