Michele, Thanks! I was hoping to hear from you on these issues. I am more incline to cut the scape. I knew it would eventually die but it does look better cut, that is what I do to my Iris's.
On the Proliferations, I had double checked the AHS web site but the scapes started to turn brown before any roots have started to show. I will keep an eye on them and see what I think is the best thing to do. I received the plants that way.
On the third issue If I can get at least either one of them to survive I will be happy. I don't think I am going to get in the habit of stepping on daylily fans on purpose to get increase, lol. Don't quite have the nerve for that one

Thanks for the information, I really Appreciate it!