Okay, I am going to sound like an utter fool, but I had been reading a post earlier today and was wanting to comment but got interrupted. Now I can NOT find the post to save my life.
The post was about a daylily gardener who wrote about a daylily she got from an elderly man that she corresponded with via the internet. I think her signature had something about a "healing garden" in it. It is a daylily she treasures because of that friendship. The elderly man passed away.
If you read that post, can someone please post a link to it so I can find it again.