So sorry for your loss, Josephine. I have a cousin who has lost a couple of pets and they are buried in a special spot in their yard.
I can certainly identify with today's quote. We lost our 90 foot oak tree in January. All the plants that I had grown under the tree were for shade. Some, like the elephant ears still did well this summer without being in the shade, but they just didn't have that rainforest look to them.
While losing the oak tree was a terrible loss,next summer I plan to clear out all the tradescantia (try to anyway, I know it is difficult to get rid of) that had also grown under the old oak tree. Then maybe find some sun loving plants.
Sometimes we fight a losing battle with our plants, but those losses teach us what not to do the next time and if given enough chances, we do triumph!