Remember cactus/succulent is a REALLY REALLY broad term. Add to that, a deep pot stays wet longer than a shallow pot, a big pot longer than a small pot. It also depends on where they are in relation to my radiators which will dry out a pot in a heart beat.
My christmas cactus and rhipsalis I water like any other house plant- they're in regular potting soil with a high % peat moss- and I water when the surface feels dry. In the winter inside the house that's probably every 4-5 days, outside in summer sun more often.
The little dish garden on my bath window sill I showed you in the other post only gets watered every 2-3 weeks inside and never when its outside- (in fact sometimes I take them in becasue we get too much rain). They don't have saucers so I put them in the sink under the spray to get a good even soaking, then leave them there to drip dry- usually on my way to work in the morning, so I can leave them in the sink - don't want to wreck my paint any more than I have already.
Jade and snake plants never more than once every 7-10 days.
When my father passed away in he had cactus in his house that lived without any water at all for 4 or 5 months!
I wish I had a better answer for you, but I can't tell you how many plants I have tossed in the garbage becasue someone gave me a hard and fast rule that turned out dead wrong. - Actually... I can tell you how many times - EVERY TIME, LOL.
I know a lot of people poo-poo moisture meters, but I think getting one really helped me. Especially to figure out which way I was messing up when things started going sideways. I still use it when I bring my houseplants back in every year until I get a feel for who needs what in what location.
Most IMPORTANT- heed Baja's warning about not letting pots sit in water. Nobody likes wet feet. I've used various methods to keep pots out of their own drainage saucers... soda bottle caps work great to lift a pot off its saucer and they're thin enough you can't see them. I've also hot glued a ring of pony beads around the bottom, cut 1/2 rings of old PVC on my chop saw... there's a hundred ways.