I think this may be my lily,as well,except mine only has an 8" bloom,not a 9". lost the tag and cant remember the name.what do ya'll think?

I don't think so. Ruby Spider has a very large yellow throat that also spills out onto the sepals, it's quite distinct. The petals are wider than the sepals and is a Unusual Form Spatulate bloom form.

There are over 84,000 registered daylilies, many of the red ones look similar.