Wow, Kathy, that is some amazing information and a lot of work and thought obviously went into it.
With tulips, daffodils and other related bulbs that the bulb fly lays eggs on, the natural coordination and symbiosis is pure artwork.
The bulbs are planted in the fall, and cool in the ground throughout the winter. During this time, the larvae that have hatched from the previous spring's eggs are munching on the bulbs while in the ground. The flowers are supposed to come up in the spring and if they are healthy, they will bloom beautifully. At this time, the larvae make their way above ground. As mature bulb flies (I think I read they're a type of hoverfly), they hover among the leaves and lay an egg that falls to the proper place. When the egg hatches, the larvae will wiggle its way down to the bulb and the cycle begins again.
Special bulbs that have been properly cooled can be planted in the spring, and for the first season, will bloom in that same spring-to-summer, depending on the type of bulb. Unfortunately, if I'm understanding everything correctly, this creates the same situation where the bulb fly can hover, and lay its eggs.
I hope I'm getting all this right! If someone wants to chime in and correct me on anything, please do.
Kathy, if your experience sees a preventative measure I can take that I'm not seeing, I would be so, so happy to hear about it! Right now, the only thing I've come upon is to watch for the flies, try to dunk them into a jar of soapy water, and to dig up and inspect my bulbs each year which I'm loathe to do.
I guess another option is to plant my new, healthy bulbs this fall and watch to see which bloom well. If there are some that don't, I'll dig them all up to inspect. If not, then, well, I guess I'll just enjoy them!
Here's one way I enjoy them: