Fortunately my husband and I both love cilantro--we actually buy bunches of it at the store !! If he had that gene that made it taste like soap to him, I don't know what I'd do
Mine bolted so fast this year they barely developed full-sized leaves before going feathery and blooming ...way before the tomatoes ripened to make salsa!
I usually let them flower and go to seed and just scatter them; they come up the next year.