As a northerner who lived in the south (Alabama) for seven years, I came to love okra, slime and all. We can even grow it up here in Iowa. Best of all the ways to make okra edible, at least to my taste buds, is to pickle it. The more sour, the better. If you haven't tried pickled okra, Dave, you should. We can get it at our favorite grocery store here. By far the best brand, as far as I'm concerned, is Talk O' Texas. The brand name alone should make you want to try it.
It has just a bit of heat added to kick up the flavor. I think there is also a hotter version, but it's not available here.
Regarding the universal calendar app, I think you're much too modest about what you've achieved, Dave. I bet there are publications out there that would live to have you write an article on how you developed it. I'm going to do my part by mentioning the app in a monthly column I write for our local paper.