struggling with a plant that is out of its natural zone can be a challenge - and if there are so many other plants to choose from - I personally go with what's easier and then go crazy within those species, and cultivars
But then I probably miss out on some lovely plants, guess I'll have to enjoy them in some of my neighbor's yards who want this type of plant challenge
I take walks everyday around my neighborhood to enjoy other's gardens (I live a block away from Seattle University which has very well known and gorgeous landscaping!)
Cheers