Everyone should be confused - I don't know how it happened (
) but I completely mixed up 2 threads and so the post I was responding to was my own from a year ago when I first mixed up this thread
The plant the lady gave me was not a houseplant it was/is Japanese fuki or Butterbur (Petasites japonicus)
But this has nothing to do with the ID question - sorry people!
@alisid I agree with your id - zebra plant!!