I don't know much about steel construction, so I can't answer that. The heavy insulation ought to be on the side or sides of prevailing winter wind (which isn't always north: ours is W/NW) rather than in the roof. If you need extra ceiling insulation, go for bubble wrap or plastic sheeting with air space.
Questions:
How is that big space to be used - and for how much of the year?
Are you installing some heating system? And how will you regulate the heat?
(Hint: If you include your location and zone in your profile, whenever you have a question, people will know at a glance what your climate requirements are and find it easier to respond. )