Hi, ConstanceReader
I'm sorry I missed this message earlier. It sounds like it can be challenging to procure some things in your beautiful state.
I'm not sure it would be worth your ordering the individual components if you wish to make your own seed starting mix, especially if you have to have them shipped. What types of things do you have access to? One thing you might consider is using a standard potting mix, but filling the top of your seed starting trays or pots with vermiculite, which is much finer and would prevent your really small seeds from getting lost in a coarser mix. It might be more practical to just add 1/4 inch to the top of whatever else you are using in your pots. A lot of seeds are not as fussy as many people think. I grow about 1000 seedlings of herbs and veggies each year for our master gardeners group. While I use seed-starting mix usually, I don't think it's absolutely necessary.
Honestly, I have direct sown some things (especially larger seeds, such as cucumbers/squash), or found that they can tolerate a coarser/heavier mix than small seeds if starting in pots.