BigBill said: You are growing a tropical plant and as such it enjoys warm temperatures, 65-85+, good direct sunlight and occasional fertilizer. I grew several for years when I lived in Florida.
Down there mine bloomed regularly and went dormant ever winter. Even in the Fort Myers area. They would start to lose leaves in early October and be leafless until good sunlight returned starting in late February. I fed them every 4-6 weeks @1/2 tsp per gallon.
You can feed them too much so they don't bloom. Good sunlight, 6 hours a day is the key.
But having said that, they are not the easiest to grow and flower in northern climates.
Marks on the undersides of the leaves usually mean bugs. False spider mites were my # 1 problem.
I hope others will stop by and offer advice. I have always looked at fertilizer as a way to support good growth and flowering. It can not make up for insufficient light and temperature that are too cool.
GigiPlumeria said: @diane_m Welcome! I agree with Big Bill, lack of 6 to 8 hours of full sun could be the reason for your #1 problem. Although I have some that are in full sun right now that are just refusing to bloom.
# 2 could be plumeria rust, unfortunately you can't avoid plumeria rust but it will not kill your plumeria.
#3 roots gets disturb will make the plumeria droopy while adjusting to new (presumably bigger pot) and will stopped being droopy once established. Also plant stopped producing leaves because maybe it is starting to form buds? Only time can tell.
And they are susceptible to spider mites if grown indoors.
TeamCll said: Problem #1 is it is indoors getting "very little direct light". It needs lots of that.
Problem #2 is your soil ratio. You say cactus mix and perlite 4:1 when it should be closer to 1:1. Especially if it is indoors not getting direct light and heat.
I can honestly say that I have never once checked the ph of any soil, and plant, ever. So, I wouldn't put too much stock in that. For such a small plant, it seems to me that you're trying to do too much?
As for repotting, I repot all of my plumeria up to 4-5 times a year with very little drooping. If you washed all the soil off the root ball when you did this, that could cause some shock. It should still recover. You definitely want to acclimate it to direct sun over time, not just throw it into the fire to avoid sunburn. It's been 100° to 106° Where I am, and I'm getting plenty of crispy leaves, but they will grow new ones. Just don't want the trunk or branches to get burned or dehydrated too much. That being said.
Fix your soil, get it outside, don't baby it.