Hi!
I grow avocadoes. All of my trees were originally started from seed. I have a 50 year old tree that was started from seed by the little girl that lived in my home prior to us purchasing the land. When her brother mowed the lawn, she would run out there to protect her little tree from getting mowed over. Avocadoes are trees, so once the plant has started growing from seed it needs to be treated as a tree. They don't want to stay small. If you try to keep it as a windowsill houseplant for too long it will die. If you put it in a large pot it will grow for awhile, but eventually it will die. I guess if the pot is big enough, you could keep it for awhile but ultimately it would take a magic trick to keep it alive. Fruit producing Avocado Trees have massive root systems and can only really flourish in the ground.
The alternative is to get an Avocado Tree that is grafted. I don't personally have any, so I can't tell you much more about them.
It's fun to put toothpicks in the avocado and start a tree. But when leaves turn black and die it's not from sunburn in this situation. Avocados thrive in full sun. I live in Florida, so when I say full sun, I m saying full force Florida sun.
I'm sorry to not give you good news. I know how much it hurts to lose a plant, especially one you started from seed.
Maybe another gardener here has a different story from mine.
I feel so bad, I don't even want to hit the finished button, hoping I can think of something.
, but that's all I can say.