Lucy68 said: Mealybugs did not destroy your tree - they don't chew on trees, just suck fluids. Photo #1 is a little too close and I can't really see it in your other photos but I suspect that's the graft. Your JM was top-grafted and part of the graft has failed. There's nothing you can do to revive the dead part but, with some effort, you can save and train what's left - it would be a multi-year effort. I had one break leaving only one branch. With patience and pruning, it turned into a nice tree but it took 15 years.
Lucy68 said: Roots growing in a circle just means, for some reason, the roots didn't leave the original planting hole. That isn't necessarily a problem unless the roots strangle the collar flare (where the trunk and roots join) and choke off nutrients and water. You uncovered the collar flare and I can't see any strangling roots.