I agree, John, those with curly hair want it straight, and vice versa. Actually, She could still have her Hibiscus with the moscheutos variety. They are very cold tolerant and have the eight inch flowers. But no, the Tipu and the Abutilons would not happen at all. If you went twenty miles to the east of here, perhaps. Although it still snows. It is just so far north there is no escaping the weather. I never gave the weather a thought growing up in the Valley, but here it is something to be watched and feared.
Natives are definitely a way to go. I am fine with them, my husband wants his splashy flowers. I planted 919 bulbs of various sorts this January. Didn't make as much of a splash as you would think. They will be better next year.
I am giving up trying to force things, it is too sad, and they certainly don't appreciate it, even if they live, they resent being here. The gardening show guys are always saying 'right plant, right place'. I think they may have something there, the plants are much more cooperative when that happens. Now, if I could just convince the voles and moles and whoever takes them at night to go along with the program, I would have something.